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Success secrets 101

I’d like to continue talking about success. Isn’t success one of the outcomes we want from our personal growth? So let’s look little deeper at success and purpose.

Why are successful people able to do things they don’t like while failures are not?

Because successful people have a purpose. Not only have they a purpose,they have a purpose that is strong enough to make them form the habit of doing things they don’t like to do so that they can accomplish the purpose they want to accomplish.

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Secret of success.

There is a really big denominator of success.

The secret of success of every person who has ever been successful - lies is in the fact that “they formed the habit of doing things that failures don’t like to do”

It’s just as true as it sounds and it’s just as simple as it seems.

You can put it to the acid test, you can put it under a microscope, you can even kick it all around until it’s worn out but when all is said and done it will still be the common denominator of success whether or not we like it.

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Domestic Violence Effects

The effects of domestic violence have been around since, I reckon, relationships have existed. The type of domestic violence that I am talking about is not purely the physical abuse that one partner imposes/inflicts on another but also the nonphysical or emotional kind.

So what’s this got to do with personal growth, self-help and development you ask?

I believe that as students we need to be aware of this and recognize it and ask ourselves is this affecting my life and studies.

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Forms of Patience

Part of my challenge has been learning patience and as I learn about this I thought I should share this with you.

At one end of the scale patience can take the form of the passive act of waiting without agitation or complaint.

However patience can be linked to action - the painstaking completion of a laborious task or the relentless pursuit of a goal.

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Being Kind to YOU

In the last few post we have looking at people pleasers and how hard it is to say NO and so I’d like to sum up what is was all about for me - and maybe this might help you.

Figure out what makes you happy.

For instance, you may like reading magazines, reading a novel, watching videos, going to the drive-in, going to a park, or listening to music.

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Saying No - part 3

Breaking out of the people pleasing cycle .

So I’d like to share some of the things that helped me break free.

First, practice saying NO.

This is a very important word!

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Laughter is the best….

Today I interrupt the series as I came across something that brought a smile to my face and I want to share it with you.

Remember that laughter is the best medicine :

Family Tree of Vincent Van Gogh:

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