Low self estime, please help me?!?!?!?!?!?
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i have low self esteem, my bad list goes on and on, i am on the verge of bad things? idk wat to do. i can’t spell,type, lok pretty, i really want a guy in my life, no one ever ask me out. i am in eigth grade and no one likes me. im stupid and insecure aobut everything, this is more than hormones, i find my self haveing i dyeing need for attention. like bad thoughts about how to get attention, please help me? what do i do to get my self esteem up? i am so friking lazy, GAWD! help me!~!!!!j s;o dihr ahgd h
help me please
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January 30th, 2008 10:10
I would enroll in some sort of activity like Karate or some type of martial arts.They teach you moves to protect yourself but most importantly they teach you self control,discipline and self confidence.I am 38 and always had a weight problem and was very self conscious.When I took Karate last year it didn’t matter anymore.Every one there had issues but it all was left at the door during class.We all worked together to learn and I made alot of friends of all ages and skill levels.No one was critical of anything.It was great.Life is what you make so don’t waste time feeling blue.If you are a happy person no matter what,that is very attractive and people will gravitate towards you.Good luck and have fun.
January 30th, 2008 21:31
U are not stupid u arent…….your low self esteem looks like for start the u have a form of dislexia……that is the inability to put letters together correctly…along with that some ppl have a processing disorder..that is …..u know what ppl are saying but you brain cant let the correct thing out like following directions in order i know this because my daughter has this….and it gives ppl low self esteem……..youy sound depressed ……why soneone in eight grade so much to have and gain would feel this way…….do not seek attention in bad ways you will hurt yr self…..when i was in school that was 1981 i graduated…..i was told i was fat ugly, ppl hated me,i had no boy friends i hated my self……i wanted to die…..but know i am strong and beautiful,,,,with a heart of gold……..
January 31st, 2008 02:55
ok well first of all your in 8th grade i didnt get my first boyfriend untill the veeery end of 8th grade and middle school relationships only work about .05 percent of the time trust me. it gets easyer in highschool guys arent as dumb. and as for the self esteem middle school is normaly the key time for that people are really harsh and extreamly judgmental untill they get to highschool and realize how stupid they are being. ha in middle school i hated myself and life so much i not only tryed to kill myself but it had a kill list of people i would kill if i ever brought a gun to school. 8th grade was definatly one of my toughest years but it means almost nothing when you get to highschool. ok this is going to sound gay but it duz help. everyday tell yourself you are a strong beautiful girl……..in your head of course. because it is psychologicly proven that people who do that are actualy happier and it helps selfesteam. and wutever u do NEVVER LISTEN TO WHAT OTHERS SAY ABOUT U!!!! you are your own person and no one else determens that
February 1st, 2008 02:49
I’m in 8th grade too.
and trust me, as much as I want a guy too, I’ve gone out with guys before and it’s pointless and over-rated at this age.
And hey, you only have 4 more years of highschool school after this.
You’ll find a guy, don’t worry.
I suggest you join an activity you like, maybe even join it with an outgoing friend- I know I make friends easier when I’m with other friends. And having alot of different friends can make you feel alot better about yourself.
Maybe just try viewing life different.
February 2nd, 2008 06:46
I too have low self esteem too. Don’t worry about having a boyfriend. If there’s anyone who needs to feel embarassed about never having had one, it’s me, because I am in college. Maybe some anti-depressant medication could help. Have you told your mom how you feel? Make sure you discuss this if you want to get better.
February 14th, 2008 06:04
I agree with “nomoretruckn” - take a small step and investigate and research the opportunities in your area for a beginners martial arts class. If that seems like too big of a step - rent a martial arts video like “77 Fun and Exciting Martial Arts Drills” this will give you a good idea of what martial arts is all about.
It has been proven that children you enage in a martial arts class have higher self esteem than those who don’t. It is worth checking out.
Yoshi
February 15th, 2008 20:37
An effective way to break a limiting belief system is to choose an area in your life where you know you can take control. No matter who we are, there is always some area in our life where we feel a level of competence. Set a reachable goal in that direction and then take action. When you experience success, set another reachable goal in that same direction and follow through with more action. Continue his pattern until you become comfortable with your success.
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